A similar event occured recently when I observed a gorgeous little girl carefully and fully focussing on carrying two empty glasses to the counter in a busy cafe……a demonstration of her willingness to help and show her capabilities as little kids like to do….
I was right there with her energetically…seeing her successfully navigating through the line tables and we were going really well until her mother spotted her and called out. in a shrill voice with tsunami-type currents…:
“CAREFUL!!! YOU”LL DROP THEM….YOU’LL DROP THEM”….
Crash!!..smash!!
“SEE!!…….I TOLD you you would drop them naughty girl…now come and sit back down’
……..and so….and SEW the little girl, only a few minutes ago SO confident of her abilities and focused on her vision of the glasses reaching the counter safely, now sat small in her chair, immersed in the feelings of clumsiness and shame”…
Unity……Connection…..Oneness 
